Do You Want To Get An Ex Back?
“Hi There“
“I’m Samson Hart and my friends have affectionately nicknamed me ‘Hitch’ because over the last 12 years I’ve been giving couples advice on getting back with ex boyfriends and girlfriends.
I’m happy to say that I’m very happily married and have been for the past 14 years to my college sweetheart, Letitia and have two bouncy children together, Nathan and Ellie.
Things have turned out great for me now……but it hasn’t always been that way.
Back in the days of High School I never really took relationships that seriously. In fact, looking back at the ways I treated some girls really leaves me feeling shameful of myself. I was an average looking kind of guy, easy to talk to, good sense of humour, nothing dazzling, just a straight down the line average Joe if you like.
I didn’t excel at sports, I was just OK. I came from an average family and lived in an average house with my mom, dad and younger brother and sister. You’ve got the picture!
Looking back, getting a date or asking a girl out wasn’t too much of a problem. Of course, my heart would rush, stomach churn and my palms would sweat in the run up to asking the big question, but I can’t honestly remember an instance where I was knocked back by a girl. I also don’t recall ever being dumped either, it was always me that did the dumping.
That sounds pretty aggrogant but let me explain a little more and you’ll understand where I’m going with this.
After a few weeks of dating a pattern used to emerge. That fizzy feeling in my tummy used to calm down, I would start to notice that the girl seemed to be less bothered about seeing me, spending less time together, excuses about homework and needing to study used to be regularly brought in to nights that she clearly didn’t seem to be interested in seeing me even for a half an hour.
As soon as these patterns started I’d feel panic, like a rabbit caught in the headlights of a car, so I’d always finish the relationship before she did to save my ego from getting a battering. This was always the way it went although at the time I didn’t put much thought into why it was happening until one day everything changed.
I’d been dating Letitia for going on 7 months, a true accomplishment for me as the most I’d gone out with a girl was just over 5 months. This girl was different. We connected, I felt comfortable around her, it felt like we’d known each other for years. Those fizzy feelings were still there and showed no signs of stopping.
Then one evening we went out to a movie. I noticed that she wasn’t as touchy feely as she usually was, a little distant. All those signs from that old familiar pattern were showing that night but Samson was blissfully unaware. After the show as I walked her home, I noticed she was walking with her arms folded and not holding my hand, it still didn’t dawn on me that something was brewing. We came to her door, she turned to face me but instead of a kiss goodnight she looked at me and said:
‘Samson, you’re a great guy but this just isn’t working out for me and I don’t think we should see each other anymore’
Wham, Bam…..I didn’t see that coming! I was speachless. Shocked. I’d been dumped !
What’s more I’d been dumped by a girl I really liked, in fact actually loved. I might as well have been punched in the gut, it came straight out of left field and knocked me flat.
I don’t remember the walk home that night, my head was spinning with one big question…..why?
I even broke down in front of my mom who sat me down with a cup of her magic cocoa and told me a few things from a woman’s point of view. Things I had no idea about like the way women see things, how and why they react to certain aspects of a relationship even if they love a guy. Now I knew all the workings of a guy….I am one after all, but this was the first time I’d heard how a woman works…..it was a revelation! All of a sudden it was clear why I’d always got that same pattern with every girl I’d ever dated.
So I set about retracing the steps of my previous relationships in my head and analysed exactly what went wrong. I took the my new found revelation and took a good hard look at what I could do to turn it around and make definite key steps to getting my ex girlfriend back.
The rest is history! Here we are, happy and very much in love even after all this time. What’s more I’ve helped many others, both men and women, to get an ex back.
If you’re wanting to get back with your ex then this site is for you. You’ll find many articles to help you and I’ve teamed up with my good friend TW Jackson (T Dub’s) to bring you the ultimate guide and solution whatever your circumstance called The Magic Of Making Up”
To Your Future Happiness,
Samson Hart Y
